So, you thought you were out of the woods concerning sleep regressions, eh? Not quite. There is, yet another, sleep regression, known as the 3 year old sleep regression, headed your way. Only this time, your child is old enough, not only to cry out after you, but to pinpoint why exactly you should stay by their bedside, or why they shouldn’t have to go to bed when you’ve asked them to.

So, what should you do when you notice 3 year old sleeping issues? We’re glad you asked!

Warum wacht mein 3-jähriger nachts auf?

When it comes to your preschooler, you may find yourself asking, “Why is my 3 year old waking up at night?”

The question isn’t at all uncommon, and is, indeed, a part of the expected 3 to 3.5 year old sleep regression.

Does every three year old experience the regression? No. But by and large, many parents are finding the stress of getting a toddler to sleep, coupled with the stress of, likely, having dealt with sleep issues for the majority of the child’s young life, simply unbearable.

The good news is, this regression is probably the last regression your child will encounter. While the 3-month, 8-month and even 18-month sleep regressions are all tied to changes in sleep patterns and major developmental milestones, much of the 3 year old sleep regression can be attributed to your child’s imagination and language development and their will to use it.

Sprache und Vorstellungskraft

Wenn Sie es satt haben, mit 3-jährigen Schlafproblemen umzugehen, machen Sie sich Mut. Zu wissen, was los ist, und ihm einen Namen zu geben, ist die halbe Miete.

Having said that, toddlers of this age are more advanced than they once had been. Their independence is flourishing as they take on new challenges and become enthralled with new things. Also, your little one’s imagination is growing and will manifest itself during imaginative play times, whether they are by themselves, with you or with friends.

Wie bei allem ist jedoch zu viel Gutes niemals von Nutzen. Eine überaktive Fantasie kann Ihre Kleinen ins Wanken bringen, insbesondere wenn sie versehentlich Filmen, Bildern oder Liedern ausgesetzt waren, die sie erschrecken.

When alone in their room at night, their mind may wonder, naturally, since it is dark, and you aren’t around. Your child may begin to feel genuinely afraid and may take this opportunity to call after you, cry or even proceed into your room, all in the middle of the night.

In addition to an expanding imagination ruining a good night’s rest for you both comes the acquisition of language. Your child is learning that he or she can exercise a level of control by making requests or demands using their words. As such, your 3 year old is likely to beg you not to leave their room at night, or to make one too many requests in an attempt to stay up way past their bedtime. All of this ends up leaving you exhausted, not only for you, but for your 3 year old as well.

3 Jahre alter Schlafplan und Schlafgewohnheiten

Sleeping habits for preschool aged children can be hard to pin down. This can be due to a variety of factors, one of which is nap time. While most children start fighting naps around the age of 2, they aren’t truly ready to drop their nap until they are at least 3 years old. Nevertheless, even a 3 year old may need additional sleep. You may even notice that your little one does fine without a nap one day, but is cranky when he or she doesn’t have his or her nap, the next.

Though confusing, it can help to remember that 3 year old children still need about 11-13 hours of sleep per day. So, if your child doesn’t get that amount of sleep in one stretch at night, he or she is likely to still need a nap. A typical sleep schedule for toddlers might include going to bed between 7 to 9 o’clock at night. Some may need to go to sleep earlier, such as those who aren’t taking naps, and some may fall asleep later.

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Wie man einen Dreijährigen zum Schlafen bringt

Berücksichtigen Sie die folgenden Optionen, damit Ihr 3-Jähriger nachts schlafen kann:

  • Eine starke Schlafenszeitroutine – We’re sure you’ve heard this a hundred times, but it still rings true. Staying consistent with your bedtime routine is crucial for preparing your little one for bed. Consider making a hearty dinner, taking a bath, reading a book, and even discussing your general expectations in a positive and upbeat manner, a nightly habit. You may even take advantage of your 3 year old’s need for independence, by allowing them to take on opportunities to bürsten ihre eigenen Haare oder übernehmen Sie nachts selbst andere Pflegeaufgaben! TRINKGELD: Stellen Sie sicher, dass Sie eine bekommen Babybürste und Kammset das ist für junge kopfhaut und haare gedacht!
  • Nachtlicht - Für das einfallsreiche und ängstliche Kind können Sie in Betracht ziehen, ein Nachtlicht zu kaufen. Stellen Sie nur sicher, dass das Nachtlicht schwach genug ist, um den Schlaf zu induzieren, und keine blauen oder grünen Strahlen aussendet, da diese Typen dem Gehirn häufig signalisieren, dass es Zeit ist, aufzuwachen. Suchen Sie stattdessen nach dunklen, roten oder warm leuchtenden Nachtlichtern wie dem einen Hier.
  • Raumtemperatur – Ist das Zimmer Ihres Kindes zu heiß? Verwendung einer Baby-Raumtemperatur-Thermometer Ich werde dich es wissen lassen. Eine behagliche Atmosphäre sorgt für guten Schlaf.
  • Timer einstellen – Got a little one who screams every time you leave his or her bedside? Tell your child that you’ll stay, but only for an allotted amount of time. Once time is up, diligently get up, give your child a kiss and dismiss yourself. You might find yourself pleasantly surprised at what a little extra cuddle or talk time can do to relieve your child of his or her fears. Some parents even suggest doing this while the lights are already out, as this brings a certain comfort level to being in the dark.
  • Leises Spielzeug - Sometimes, what makes 3 year old’s sleep isn’t about some trick or clever plan, but rather, to simply wait until he or she is sleepy! That doesn’t mean you should allow your child to stay up with you all hours of the night, however. Adults need their time, too! Rather, put your little one down for sleep at the appointed time, but allow him or her to play or read quietly until he or she falls asleep. Not comfortable with the idea of your child busting out the LEGOS at 9:00 pm? We don’t blame you. If you only want your child to have access to stuffed animals, books, quiet puzzles and the like at night, consider putting these items in a special “quiet time” box. You can only retrieve this at night. This way, your child can easily entertain themselves until they feel sleepy, without being overstimulated.
  • Belohnung - Some things never get old, and rewards are one of them. Rewards for staying in bed at night can be as simple as going for ice cream the next day, or can be as elaborate as an ongoing sticker chart. Whatever you do, be consistent with the reward and don’t cave in if your child doesn’t meet expectations.
  • Folgen - Zusammen mit Belohnungen ergeben sich entsprechende Konsequenzen. Viele Eltern konzentrieren sich gerne auf das Positive, indem sie nur Belohnungen verteilen, aber Eltern erleben Erfolg oft, indem sie sowohl Konsequenzen als auch Belohnungen kombinieren. Die Ideen variieren, können jedoch das Entfernen des Fernsehens am nächsten Tag, das Widerrufen von iPad-Berechtigungen oder das Entfernen besonderer Möglichkeiten umfassen. Sie können sogar Konsequenzen mit Ihrer Aufkleberkarte verknüpfen, wenn Sie eine verwenden.
  • Einen Plan ausarbeiten - No matter what external rewards you come up with for your child, the number one indicator of successful sleep training isn’t the child, but the parent. As such, you must ensure that you are ready to take on the task of training your child to stay in bed, as well be ready to stay consistent. Know what methods you will use if your child meets your expectations, and what you will do if they don’t.
  • Bleiben Sie konsequent - This brings us to our next point. Consistency is key! No matter what plan you choose, you must stick to it in order for it to work. If your child knows that you will give in some days and other days you won’t, they’ll always work to manipulate you until you do, finally, give in. Therefore, if you notice that your child has gotten out of bed, you should promptly get up and gently place them back in their own bed. Do this as many times as is necessary, until your child forsakes the habit. This will be exhausting at first, but, if you remain consistent, you should see improvement within as little as a few days. Want to take it a step further? You may consider putting bells on your door so that when your little one tries to sneak in, you’ve heard them long before they’ve made their way in to lie next to you.
  • Körperliche Einschränkungen - Last but not least, you may consider physically constricting your child to his or her room. Though this isn’t everyone’s favourite method, it can be extremely helpful in keeping your little one in bed, and most importantly, to keep him or her safe at night. To do this, you may purchase a baby gate or simply lock your child’s door. Some parents use the threat of a locked door or baby gate as a bartering tool, saying, “If you can stay in your bed and stay quiet, I’ll keep the door open. If you cry or get out of bed, I will close the door shut.” No matter which method you use, just be sure to do what you say…and mean it!

Craving even more sleep tips? Take a peek at the National Health Service’s Empfehlungen für noch mehr Ideen, um Ihrem Kleinen nachts einen ungestörten Schlaf zu ermöglichen.

Ihr 3-jähriger braucht Schlaf… und Sie auch!

Alles in allem ist es wichtig, sich daran zu erinnern, dass Ihr Vorschulkind Ihren Schlaf noch mehr braucht, obwohl Sie ihn auf jeden Fall brauchen. Studien zeigen, dass Jugendliche ihren Schlaf brauchen, um zu lernen, sich zu entwickeln und zu wachsen. Daher ist es kein Problem, Chaos in Bezug auf das Thema Schlafenszeit zuzulassen.

Denken Sie daran, egal welche Methode Sie wählen, um Ihren Dreijährigen nachts unter der Decke zu halten, Sie müssen konsequent bleiben. Je fester und unbeweglicher Sie sind, desto schneller lernt Ihr Kind, die neuen Erwartungen zu akzeptieren und sich ihnen anzupassen. Also, machen Sie weiter, legen Sie einige Grundregeln fest. Bestätigen Sie das Positive und feiern Sie kleine Siege auf dem Weg!

So, here’s to great sleep…for everyone!

Weitere Informationen zum Schlaf von Kleinkindern finden Sie unter wie Sie Ihr Kleinkind nachts im Bett halten und Baby-Jetlag-Lösungen.