After a long hard day, all you want to do is crash onto your bed, close your eyes and drift soundly to sleep. Unfortunately, sleep can be likened to a fleeting vapour in your home, as, once again, you awake to the sound of your sweet toddler whispering your name\u2026 at 1 a.m. Sound familiar? Join the club. There are millions of parents around the globe seeking answers as to why their toddler keeps getting out of bed in middle of night hours.<\/p>\n
Nevertheless, things can change, and, to be frank, they have to, because you need your sleep just as much as anyone else. So, why does getting toddler to stay in bed have to be so exceptionally hard?<\/p>\n
First and foremost, breathe, parents! Things will be okay.<\/p>\n
Though it seems like this ongoing battle will never end, we can assure you that it will. Having said that, there is, most assuredly, a reason behind your little one getting out of bed at night, and not all of it is their fault. Nor is it all yours.<\/p>\n
If your child keeps getting out of bed, the reasons why often vary.<\/p>\n
If you are tired of the way things have been, it\u2019s time for you to take action. You don\u2019t want to be sleep deprived forever, do you?<\/p>\n
We\u2019re here to help. The following are a few of our general recommendations for how to handle when a toddler keeps getting out of bed in middle of night hours.<\/p>\n
First off, it is important to check your mentality before tackling how to keep a toddler in bed.<\/p>\n
It is absolutely crucial that you, yes you, are mentally and emotionally ready for your child to transition.<\/p>\n
This not only applies to your attitude concerning training your child to stay in bed, but also to your own attachment needs, yourself. This is especially true for parents whose children have slept with them since birth. If this is you, it may be time to do some soul searching and ensure that you are, indeed, ready for change.<\/p>\n
Once you’ve decided that you’ve had enough and are ready to move forward with the independent sleep process, you must prepare yourself. Preparation is key to staying consistent, and you\u2019ll need to stay consistent to see results. E<\/p>\n
xpect a positive outcome, be confident with the measures you are using and don\u2019t be afraid to change up what isn\u2019t working.<\/p>\n
Whatever you do, however, don\u2019t cave in! When you do, your child will continue to try you.. again and again.<\/p>\n
There are several ways that you can go about keeping toddler in bed. This way you won’t have to be driven mad by toddler keeps getting out of bed in middle of night issues.<\/p>\n
As previously mentioned, you\u2019ll first want to make sure that you’re consistent. This means voicing your expectations ahead and time, and sticking to it. Saying things like, \u201cYou get to sleep in your own room tonight\u201d instead of \u201cDo you want to sleep in your own room tonight?\u201d communicates your resolve to your child, and lets them know how you view the situation\u2026 as a privilege and not a choice.<\/p>\n
Once you’ve communicated this to your child, it will help to set a few ground rules. Do this positively and with an upbeat attitude. Explain the expectations and consequences for getting out of bed with matter-of-fact assurance that lets them know that you\u2019re serious, but still positive about the process.<\/p>\n
Once bedtime approaches, it\u2019s time to put a plan to action. Consider any of the following tactics:<\/p>\n
No matter which methods you choose to keep toddler in bed, it is important to check your attitude at the door.<\/p>\n
Upon waking up for the day, try not to mention past mistakes to your child from the night before. Instead, continue honing in on your expectations in a positive way before bedtime arrives, and then, follow through, just as you said you would.<\/p>\n
Another way to keep positive? Try stopping at your local dollar store and picking out some gifts for your little one to celebrate accomplishments achieved. Not only will it reinforce good behaviour on behalf of your toddler, but it may also lift your spirits as you reward your child for a job well done!<\/p>\n
If you are approaching the very first night in toddler bed, you may be feeling a bit nervous about the process.<\/p>\n
Rather than allow yourself to be riddled with anxiety, consider these methods instead:<\/p>\n
We know. You likely shudder at the thought of your toddler roaming about with no supervision, and so do we! To prevent this, consider creatively setting up your child\u2019s bedspace to limit his or her ability to climb, or fall, out of their bed. This might include pushing one side of their bed against the wall, buying protective guardrails, you name it!<\/p>\n
In addition to physically blocking your child from potentially escaping his or her bed comes another idea, and that is to use a baby gate to literally keep your child in their room. This, by no means, however, means that they won\u2019t wake you. Yes, your toddler is quite capable of yelling down the hall for you, and you know what? They most likely will. When they do, though, you\u2019ll have several options.<\/p>\n
First, you can get up and see about them, but consider doing this after you’ve waited a bit. This lets them know that you aren\u2019t getting up at their every beck and call, right away. When you do get up, remember to limit your interaction with them. You may say something like, \u201cIt\u2019s bedtime!\u201d and simply place them back into bed. Or you could say nothing. Either way, they are getting the message that you mean what you say…and it is time to go to sleep.<\/p>\n
Another method, if you are up for it, is to use the open door policy. Once your child calls you from the gate, go to them and tell them that they can either stay in bed with the privilege of having the door open, or they can stay in their room with the door shut. It is up to them. Either is a win-win for you, as your toddler will either choose to be quiet or, have you physically shut the door so that they are unable to get out.<\/p>\n
Bear in mind that if you do shut the door, it may be wise to invest in a baby monitor of some sort, so that you can at least hear, or see, what shenanigans your little one is up to once you’ve closed their door.<\/p>\n
If your 2 year old won’t stay in bed, be aware that his or her newfound independence is at play, along with everything else, making power struggles more intense, and more probable. By implementing the steps above, you can get a leg up on his or her demands, but you must stay persistent. With time, even a toddler of this age will get the hint, and will eventually learn to accept the routine of staying in his or her own bed.<\/p>\n
A 3 year old that keeps getting out of bed may be a little more creative than your average 2 year old, and as a result, you may find that he or she is suddenly \u201cnot feeling well\u201d or \u201cneeds to go potty\u201d more often than usual. To curb this, ensure that all of your little ones needs are met before going to bed. You can even consider creating cue cards for your 3 year old, with words and images included, to help him or her handle their own needs before bedtime, including drinks, restroom, a snack to eat and whatever else they need before dozing off for the night.<\/p>\n
If you suspect that your child is having a rough time winding down to begin with, try some of the following tips to ensure smoother sleep for your toddler or baby:<\/p>\n
Want to know more? Check out Parent Magazine\u2019s best baby tips<\/a> or our own baby sleeping soundly tips<\/a> <\/strong>on our blog for even more ideas on how to get your little one soundly to rest.<\/p>\n Though it may feel like the chips are stacked against you at times, rest assured that with effort, persistence and positivity, you and your little one can sleep, separately, throughout the night. By keeping your foot planted firmly down, following through and holding your child to expectations, you may begin to see change in as little as a week.<\/p>\n Remember, that although you are in desperate need of sleep and your toddler does need to learn to sleep without you, his or her safety should always be first. Be sure to keep any wires or hazardous situations out of the path of your children, and remember to attend to any legitimate concerns they may have, especially those dealing with illness or injury, at night.<\/p>\n Is your toddler perhaps undergoing sleep adjustment due to travel? We’ve got a post for dealing with toddler jetlag<\/a><\/strong> sul nostro blog!<\/p>\nToddler Keeps Getting Out of Bed in Middle of Night: It Can Be Solved<\/h2>\n
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